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How does one succeed in life?

10.06.2025 09:37

How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What would happen if the Soviet Union had simply annexed Manchuria after World War 2 or kept it independent as a puppet state allied them and separate from China as China was too weak too oppose it anyway?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Procrastinates a lot.

Ask yourself:

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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What I need from you?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What is your review of working in EY?

Does not procrastinate.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?